It’s Christmas time! As I consider the blessings that our Lord has given over the past year, I am reminded that He continues to teach me. My prayer is that I am always willing to learn from the Master. One such lesson came recently as He revealed to me that sometimes we cling to things that are broken. Here are some examples:
At my desk, I have a chair in which I sit to do office work. You know the kind of chair that has wheels on a base, in this case the base was like a five-pointed star. Well, one of the wheels broke, and off came part of one of the “arms” of the base. The chair was still good (except for a slight defect where the chair seemed to tilt slightly to one side - I had gotten used to that). I thought that I may be able to fix the chair, but there was no way. I even tried to take all the wheels off, but even then it wobbled like a cheap table at an all you can eat for $4.99 restaurant. So, I resolved to go buy a new chair. But even then, I thought that I could just keep this chair as well. Kimberly wouldn’t let me. One of the conditions of buying the new chair was to get rid of the old one. But then came a blessing…
If you were to come to our apartment building, and then to our entrance, you would be met by one of the three (or four) women who work as gatekeepers for those coming to visit. These are often middle aged women who have enough courage to confront anyone who may seem to bring trouble, and they keep the snow swept away from the steps. Mostly, they remain in the booth/room where they spend their shift watching people come and go. So it was as I carried out the old chair that the one who worked that night asked me what I was doing with the chair. I told her that I was throwing it away. For her, this just wouldn’t do, and so she asked if she could have the chair. I was delighted to give it to her! And remember that I had taken off the rollers? Well, I had thought I could keep them, but I told the lady that I would bring her the rollers down as well. It was an almost new chair - less than three months old! I know that she will use the chair, and that it was of value to her, and therein lies the blessing that came as I chose to “get rid” of something that I no longer needed.
Another example: A couple of weeks ago we had guests come to our home. We like to have guests and see this as a ministry to those with whom we serve. A family of five came to visit, and one of the children was about two years old. As we are eating, the two year old goes over to take a toy truck from the shelf. Just in front of the shelf, and near the Christmas tree, we have set up a ceramic nativity set. As she took the truck from the shelf, the truck fell to the floor, and in so doing, a lonely ceramic shepherd was shattered. “Oh, that’s okay,” was the
immediate reply from Kimberly. I agreed, because that is just what happens in life - sometimes things get broken. So I gathered up the broken shepherd and place the pieces on the shelf. I thought I would just get some glue and put the shepherd back together…kind of like Humpty Dumpty. Well, those pieces set there on the shelf for 10 days! After becoming tired of looking at them, I simply threw the pieces away. It didn’t hurt, and I haven’t missed the shepherd at all. You probably can’t even tell he is missing. After all, the real message of the nativity is that our Savior has come!
And so, I am reminded that we, or at least I, sometimes hold onto things that are broken, or even things that just keep us from being who God has called us to be. And at the same time, I am challenged to think that there are things in our lives that are broken, and shouldn’t be. Perhaps a relationship with someone, even with God Himself, is broken, and pride keeps us from seeking forgiveness. Whatever the case, Paul says it best:
Philippians 3:13-14
No, dear brothers and sisters, I am still not all I should be, but I am focusing all my energies on this one thing: Forgetting the past and looking forward to what lies ahead, I strain to reach the end of the race and receive the prize for which God, through Christ Jesus, is calling us up to heaven. (NLT)
What a great verse! And like the nativity set, it is not all the peripheral “things” that matter, but the One Who should be in the center of each of our lives.
If you made it this far, thanks for reading as I share my thoughts regarding things which our Father is teaching me. May you have a blessed season in Celebrating the Birth of our Savior!